New Beginnings

Well, having been absent for a short while, all thanks to moving home, I'm glad to say that things are gradually returning to normal. As for moving, never again! And I recall saying that four and a half years ago when my family and I first moved to the delights of rural West Cumbria. Nestled within the Vale of Lorton, surrounded by the West Cumbrian mountains, I finally felt that I was home. Sadly our Cumbrian cottage was only a temporary home and as such it was inevitable that one day we would have to move on. That day came last Tuesday.

Moving is so stressful. If you work from home as I do, there is the added pressure of ensuring that your work is properly packed, labelled and easily identified once you reach the new home. Well, you can imagine that even with the best intentions this is not always possible. Top tip -do not take your eyes off the removal men for a second. They work like streaks of lightening, packing items into boxes randomly at top speed.
It has taken me five days to retrieve the hair dryer! I'm missing my much needed notebook, books for research along with a 'tomb' of a novel that I'm currently reading and reviewing. I truly hope the publisher does not mind waiting a little longer for the review.

So, the work has almost ground to a halt. Add to that the fact that when we moved I think I left my writer's head behind -or should I say heart, or maybe spirit -who knows. All I know is I need it back in one piece.
It has been incredibly frustrating, stressful and sad. I miss my old cottage. The house had a warm, beating, nurturing heart and  now I find myself in a strange, old house wondering where it's heart is and if I'll ever find it. Perhaps it will find me.

And now the work really begins. Unpacking and storing, placing furniture, finding shoes, toys, books -the list is endless. All the boxes I'd stored in the attic over the years in previous houses now have to be unpacked and ruthless decisions need to be made. It's de-cluttering time. Tell me, how does a writer de-clutter?  Yes to old clothes, ornaments, stuff. Absolute and resolute NO to anything writerly. That includes all stationery, paper, books, notepads, newspapers, cuttings, magazines, endless notes of research. Face it, we inhabit literary tombs and that's just the way it is and needs to be. My writer magazines are piling up and yet the old  ones still provide me with useful information and for that reason I simply can't bare to part with them.

So, December is here and there's much to be thankful for. November has left us, taking NaNoWriMo with it for another year. I met some great people but even so it's not for me. I tried it for the first time ever, but the method of speed writing 50,000 words in 30 days, irrespective of how good or bad the writing is, just does not work for me. Add my house move into the equation and that was me out of the race. However, it's not all bad. It fuelled the writing and gave me extra fodder for the next project so I can't complain. I think sometimes it's useful to go beyond your regular comfort zone and try something new.  And whilst I work on attempting to regain my writing stride whilst desperately wishing this house to accept me as its new mistress, I'm wondering where on earth to squeeze in the Christmas tree . . . .

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  1. Suzy, 50K is just a number, right!

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  2. Hi Ron -Right! The point is that it certainly gets you writing so essentially everyone who does that is a winner. If you need the motivation it's also great for that too.

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  3. Best of luck as you unpack. Seems like you are headed in the right direction with everything.

    Love the picture. I am guessing it is just a photo and not your new home. At first I thought it was your new home. Beautiful photo.

    Take care.

    Elizabeth
    Silver's Reviews
    My Blog

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    1. Hi Elizabeth, thank you for that. I wish the photo was my home at Christmas! I only hope I can find our tree.

      Best,
      Suzy

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  4. Moving is such a stressful time. It is good though that you got it done before Christmas. Once you have been there a while it will start to feel like home. I think it is to do with smell. You need to make the house smell like your own. Use your own washing powder and cook things you like. The smell soon impermiates the walls. Then you will start losing things that you once were certain were in a certain packing case. All of a sudden you are home.

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    1. Hi Kerry,
      Thanks for the advice. I guess you're right. Must admit, I'm finally beginning to settle a little. There's just so much to get used to -I feel as if I've moved regions when I've only gone 35 miles away. I can't wait for life to settle a little and to get back my former routine & get back on track with the writing.

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  5. Congratulations on your move, sorry you find it so stressful. Since becoming empty nester's nearly ten years ago my husband and I have regarded moving as just the next chapter in our Life Adventure and we relish the challenge. Hope you settle in soon. :)

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    1. Thanks and thanks for dropping by -appreciate it. I think I was 'grieving' for the former homestead, as soppy as that sounds.

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  6. As one who has moved many times I sympathise. It is one of the most stressful events in a life.

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    1. Hi Yvonne,

      Thanks for the support. Things are settling now, thanks. Great to see you here.

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